I’ve Got Rhythm…..Not! ©

According to Wikipedia, I Got Rhythm” is a piece composed by George Gershwin with lyrics by Ira Gershwin and published in 1930, which became a jazz standard. Its chord progression, known as the “rhythm changes“, is the foundation for many other popular jazz tunes. This song title and melody has been on my mind for the last several days as life seems to have lost its rhythm in the wake of Covid-19.

As the saying goes, “I can’t carry a tune in a bucket” but titles and melodies often ring in my head for days when something prompts it; in this case the virus.

I’m normally almost compulsive about maintaining a rhythm to life (you should see my daily To-Do list). But these days, if you’re anything like me, life seems to be without its normal rhythm.

But lest you start feeling sorry for yourself, let me tell you of a few close friends of ours:

  • Our son, Jess, recently took a new job in Germany, near Nuremburg, working for a defense contractor to NATO. Before the virus hit he settled into a very small apartment without much of anything but four very close walls for what he thought would be just a short time, and then, only for sleeping. But the virus is running rampant there and now he is tightly quarantined. We just sent him a 4000 piece puzzle as part of a survival kit.
  • One of our daughter’s best friends in CT lost both of her parents in Spain to the virus .
  • One of the missionary’s we support in India, whose Prime Minister just put the country’s entire population of 1.3 Billion people in quarantine, just sent us an email along with a short video showing the pandemonium that is engulfing that nation along with the pandemic.

By comparison, we are living in “The Garden of Eden” here in middle Georgia and we should be counting our blessings every day. We should take advantage of this by looking for ways to help others during these times.

Nonetheless, life does seem to have lost its rhythm but don’t let that throw your entire life into discord (musical analogy intended!). One of the rhythms that’s off for us is regular church/synagogue attendance. Normally, we just don’t miss. And in fact, we are still “Attending” online worship services, but of course as you know, it’s just not the same.

But what is the same is the fourth commandment of ten that Moses brought down from Mount Sinai: “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work“. People have tried very hard to ignore this rhythm or to substitute others for it. In fact, did you know that as part of The French Revolution, the new government divided the month into three décades or “weeks” of ten days each, named simply:

  • primidi (first day)
  • duodi (second day)
  • tridi (third day), and so on to,
  • décadi (tenth day)

It didn’t work; “Décades” were abandoned in April 1802.

What does work is keeping the rhythm of life according to God’s tempo. Try it, it’s a real gift when you actually rest on the Sabbath! And it will work even after the virus passes!

Thanks for reading All About Seniors…..see you next week!

Bill Milby is a Director of Visiting Angels® of Central Georgia, a non-medical, living assistance service for seniors. If you have questions or comments about this column you can reach him at william.mercylink@gmail.com

Don't Miss the Signs ©

I don’t mean to be morbid or anything but the Covid-19 virus is just another reminder to us, especially seniors, that life is 100% fatal in the end. The only real questions are HOW & WHEN we depart this chapter of life.

But there’s a lot more going on around us than just this virus that we keep hearing about. When I hear the news I can’t help wondering if I’m not reading what the Prophets, Jesus and the Apostles Paul and John told us would happen near the end of the age. Surely it begs the question for thinking people with any knowledge at all of the scriptures.

So, in the remaining space I have left in this brief column I’d like to share with you the signs I see:

  • The Global Covid-19 Virus Pandemic…..Matt 24 re plagues
  • Locusts in Africa and middle east…..Matt 24, re pestilence
  • A Cashless economy (Wall St Journal says the Fed and other central banks are considering abolishing cash due to the virus because it’s contaminated with germs)…..Rev 13 re need for a mark on hand or forehead to buy or sell.
  • Global communications & Travel…..Daniel 12:4
  • Globalists wanting no borders with a One World Government…..Daniel 7 & Rev 13
  • Wars and rumors of wars…..Matt 24
  • Famines and earthquakes in various places…..Matt 24
  • The normalization of sexual perversion; even being taught in school curricula ….. Romans 1:21-32
  • For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy …..II Timothy 3
  • Gospel of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world…..Matt 24
  • Proliferation of security cameras and facial recognition software…..Rev 13
  • Global persecution of Christians…..Matt 24
  • When these things begin to take place, stand up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near…..Luke 21:28

But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come…..Matt 24.

Now easier said than done in this environment is the advice the Apostle Paul gives us in Philippians 4:6: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God”. But that’s exactly what we’re to do!

I’m sure that advice wouldn’t even be there if Paul didn’t understand that it’s our human nature to be anxious when we find ourselves in these kinds of circumstances. And I don’t believe he even foresaw us in the 21st century with 24/7 news channels trying to outdo each other for ratings by painting the most extreme scenarios possible to stir us into a frenzy. But I want to end this column with a portion of Psalm 46 to show who’s really in charge here:

The nations are in chaos,

and their kingdoms crumble!

God’s voice thunders,

and the earth melts!

7The LORD of Heaven’s Armies is here among us;

the God of Israel is our fortress.

8Come, see the glorious works of the LORD:

See how he brings destruction upon the world.

9He causes wars to end throughout the earth.

He breaks the bow and snaps the spear;

he burns the shields with fire.

10Be still, and know that I am God!

I will be honored by every nation.

I will be honored throughout the world.”

11The LORD of Heaven’s Armies is here among us;

the God of Israel is our fortress.

Thanks for reading All About Seniors…..see you next week!

War and Peace ©

No, I haven’t started reading Leo Tolstoy’s 1200+ page classic by that name published in 1869 ; in fact, I’m just winding up my 700+ pg biography of General MacArthur, which has been a real eye opener for me. Along with his universally acclaimed military genius, Mac Arthur had an insatiable appetite for public acclaim and headlines. Thank God for the war that he and his cohorts won and the peace that ensued….for awhile.

Just as I started reading the book, Netflix released a new docuseries called World War II in Color covering the prelude to, and the major battles of WW II. It is really well done with colorized footage that turned out amazingly well along with up to date narration that is easy to follow and very well balanced politically in my opinion. My son and I watched the entire series of thirteen episodes last week while my wife was still gone on her mission trip; perhaps that will be next week’s column.

WW II was six years of unspeakable terror on a global scale and full of atrocities on all sides. The colorized footage, while it made it easier to watch, did not glamorize the war in any way nor should any recounting of war in any format. We here in the west are so fortunate to have lived in relative peace on our soil during our entire lifetime as seniors; the only real exceptions being the Pearl Harbor attack by the Japanese in December 1941 and the 9/11 attacks by Al Qaeda on The World Trade Center, the Pentagon and the thwarted attempt on Washington that crashed in Shanksville, PA due to the heroic efforts of its passengers to overcome the hijackers.

But as bad as these events were in our homeland , they pale in comparison to the horrors that engulfed the globe in more than 50 countries on every continent except Antarctica in WW II.

Looking back, WW I was a war of relatively fixed trench warfare; WW II was a war of rapid mobility on land , sea and in the air. But looking forward, may God forbid a WW III, if it happens, it will probably involve space-launched weaponry of some sort. For this reason I am so thankful that our President has taken the initiative to start a new branch of our military: The Space Force. I hope they will never be called upon to defend us but we have no choice; we must prepare because our adversaries, especially China, already are.

However, as important as it is to prepare militarily for those kinds of threats, my hope and peace do not depend on our military, not even the Space Force. No, My hope is built on nothing less than “The peace of God, which passeth all understanding”….., that peace “shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:7). After all, He is the one who created the heavens and the earth in the first place and in the end, only He can assure our peace.

Thanks for reading All About Seniors…..see you next week!

Bill Milby is a Director of Visiting Angels® of Central Georgia, a non-medical, living assistance service for seniors. If you have questions or comments about this column you can reach him at william.mercylink@gmail.com

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Lovin’ the Library ©

A couple months ago one of our dinner guests recommended a book he had read a few years ago: American Caesar, the biography of General Douglas McArthur by William Manchester. I tucked it away in my mind for a “Rainy day” as they say.

Well, we’ve certainly had our share of rainy days lately so a couple weeks ago I decided to act on Charlie’s recommendation and went to the library for the book. I was a in a hurry for some reason or another and because of that I asked the librarian for assistance in finding the book; bingo she went right to it and I was out of the library and on my way within minutes.

Now here’s a true confession that I’m so embarrassed to make but I will anyway: I cannot remember reading any unassigned book all through high school and even through college for that matter. There must have been some, but I sure don’t remember them. Lots of engineering books though! Well, now that I’ve got that off my conscience I feel better.

But now things are different. Being retired without the pressures of corporate life, the time consuming chores of raising a family, and without a cable TV subscription, it’s the perfect time to indulge in reading for pleasure. And the library is the perfect place to make it happen……and for FREE, can you imagine that in this day and age. What could be better for a senior’s budget?

Why McArthur?

  • Having been born in 1943 I was too young for WW II and Korea
  • Deferred from Vietnam while working for a defense contractor
  • Woefully ignorant of the price we paid in the Philippines for our freedom there
  • Intrigued by stories of the colorful but controversial General.

And now that I’m a third of the way through the book (It’s a slow, engaging read of 700+pages), he sure was colorful and controversial. One of the things I never knew about was how close he was to his mother throughout his entire career; he moved her to the Philippines with him. And what an incredible role she played in his career: she even moved to West Point when he was a student there and later when he was the superintendent in charge of the academy!

There is so much to learn, especially by reading biographies of great men and women. One of the common threads about great leaders seems to be their idiosyncratic habits; my thoughts go to Churchill here, another of William Manchester’s biographies (The Last Lion).

So I’m wondering, are there any other late blooming readers out there who are just waiting to discover the joys of reading in these sunset years? I sure hope so. Why not get yourself a library card and check out some great books before these wintry, rainy days are over? I’m sure you’ll be glad you did!

Thanks for reading All About Seniors….see you next week!

Bill Milby is a Director of Visiting Angels® of Central Georgia, a non-medical, living assistance service for seniors. If you have questions or comments about this column you can reach him at william.mercylink@gmail.com

NASCAR Memories ©

I spent Sunday afternoon trying to watch the Daytona 500 with my son, David. Between rain delays and lousy internet service that kept buffering our reception I had lots of time to reflect on NASCAR Memories that I hadn’t thought of in years. 

While I’m not a huge NASCAR fan I do enjoy watching an occasional race, especially the Daytona 500 because it holds the richest memories for me. And  for some reason as I approach that magic octogenarian mark,  memories are treasured even more; perhaps because we  intuitively understand that we’re not going to be able to go down a lot of these roads another time.

So here goes my walk down NASCAR Memory lane…..buckle your seatbelt:

1965 …..I was part of a Chrysler Corporately sponsored drag racing team campaigning a car called “The Flying Carpet” during the summer after my sophomore year of engineering school. The Petty’s were boycotting NASCAR early that season because NASCAR was not allowing Chrysler to run their 426 Hemi engine due to its overwhelming power. As a result, the Petty’s turned to drag racing and we got to race against Richard Petty in Bristol, TN. Unfortunately we lost, but not by much!

1969…..I was working a temporary assignment in engineering support in Detroit for Chrysler’s NASCAR racing teams. One particular outing stands out in my memory bank as we met Bobby Allison at the Martinsville, VA track for a day’s worth of brake testing. Those were heady days for the 26 year old bachelor that I was, even getting paid for work that so many guys would have given their right arm to do for free. When Chrysler offered me the job on a  permanent basis I had to think long and hard before I turned it down. It was because everyone in that group was either divorced or in the process of getting divorced and I had just gotten engaged. Looking back after 50 years with my bride I know I made the right choice. But I have to admit I often wonder “What if…..”!

1988-89…..I was working at Blue Bird as VP of our Wanderlodge motorhome division and we decided to try to break into the motorsports market at a time when virtually none of the drivers were using RV’s. We setup a meeting with Darryl Waltrip and his agent  during the 1988 Atlanta race to negotiate an arrangement whereby we would provide Darryl and his family a Wanderlodge to use in the infield for the 1989 Daytona 500. As part of the deal, I was able to bring a second Wanderlodge to park right next to his. We had a “Marketing field day” as they say while CBS Sports did an extended interview of Darryl’s wife and mother in our coaches while Darryl was leading the race on the track. He eventually went on to win the race; the only Daytona 500 victory of his career!

1989…..We were still sponsoring Darryl Waltrip, this time at the Talladega race and I was with my brother, again in the infield next to Darryl’s coach. During this trip, as well as the Daytona trip, my brother and I used our time together to plan the details of my parents 50th wedding anniversary celebration.  

While I wouldn’t blame you for thinking it, I am absolutely not recounting these memories to brag about them; no, not at all.  After all, for the most part I just happened to be in the right place at the right time. 

But I am very thankful to be able to look back on them. My main thought in today’s column is that most of us have some very rich memories we can draw on not unlike browsing through an old photo album. It was a lot of fun today , during the rain breaks and internet buffering, to relive these times. What memories do you have stored up that you should go back and visit? Perhaps even with your grandkids!

Thanks for reading All About Seniors…..see you next week!

Bill Milby is a Director of Visiting Angels® of Central Georgia, a non-medical, living assistance service for seniors. If you have questions or comments about this column you can reach him at william.mercylink@gmail.com 

24 Hours of Lemons ©

You won’t believe this one! It’s mostly for the men, but Ladies. you’re welcome to keep reading too.

18 Months ago, I took two of my sons to the National Corvette Museum in Bowling Green, KY for a special showing of the prestigious 24 Hour LeMans race in France. We had such a great time; even “camped in” at the museum (by invitation) much as they camp out at the track in France. This made another of my sons, Jess, who was studying in Israel at the time, jealous when he went online to see what we were doing. But in the process he discovered a parody race called “The 24 Hours of Lemons”.

The idea behind this race is that none of the cars are supposed to cost more than $500, at least to start with. But the sanctioning body is very serious about safety so they insist on a full roll cage, a fire suppression system, everyone has to be suited up in fireproof race suits, shoes, gloves, etc. In other words, other than the 120+ mph speeds the cars race at, safety is paramount.

Well all of this immediately struck the imagination of three of my sons and we immediately began shopping for a $500 “Race Car” which we found in the way of a 1996 long-ago-parked Camaro that we were challenged to bring back to life. The boys brought it home and proceeded to strip it of all unnecessary weight including, seats, upholstery, glass, heater, A/C, wipers and a literal-for-real rats nest (not a figure of speech”) from the air cleaner!

After an engine tune up and oil change, believe it or not, it started and “was ready to race” for the first time at the Road Atlanta course last December. Now, while the cars might be shabby, the racing venues are not. Michelin Raceway Road Atlanta, as it was renamed in 2018 is a premier 2.54-mile road course located just north of Braselton, Georgia, It is owned by NASCAR via IMSA Holdings, LLC.

How did we do? Not only did we finish the race, which is a grueling fourteen hour endurance event over two days, and in this case almost-freezing days, of rain (did you remember I said we lightened the car by removing the heater, defroster and wipers?!!!), but we came in the top 50 cars out of more than 100 starters!

Well this coming weekend will be our second race at the Barber Motorsports Park in Leeds, AL, just east of Birmingham. It is a similar premier venue to Road Atlanta. But no racer worth his salt is content to just show up with no improvements, right? So all year long we’ve been working to upgrade the car with a “new” rear axle, suspension components, supercharged engine and much, much more but space is limited here. Of course “New” here means new to the car; the major components came from the junk yard!

But what’s really new this year is that my sons have invited me to be one of the drivers and it will be a first for me even though next birthday will have a couple 7’s on the cake! Over the weekend I suited up in the fireproof suit, gloves, helmet and HANS device and practiced getting in and out of the car through the driver’s window and roll cage. I made it!

The race will be a real challenge in so many ways, not the least of which is to live up to what we’ve printed on our rear license plate: Heb 12:1 which says……

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us“.

Thanks for reading All About Seniors…..see you next week!

The Most Important Thing! ©

Last night, just before we went to bed, I asked my wife this question: “What is the most important thing that shaped the worldview you have today”? I know it’s not the most romantic question to ask your wife just before bedtime but that’s what I did; at least I’m being honest with you!

Without hesitation she answered: “Being taken to church as a child”! My soul shouted for joy as I said to her “Me too”! Think of it, here are two seventy-plus year olds admitting to each other that the most important thing in their lives happened when they attended church with their parents when they were kids!

So what is a “Worldview” anyway? Our worldview is the foundational lens through which we view every event in our life. By the way, every institution (school, political party, church, etc.) and media outlet (TV/radio station, newspaper, magazine, movie producer, etc.) has a worldview from which they make decisions and produce content. And, whether they realize it or not, every individual, has a worldview through which we receive and interpret that content.

Why is our worldview so important? Because it frames for us the most basic questions of life:

  • What is truth?
  • What is the source of truth?
  • What is right and what is wrong?
  • When does life begin and Who gets to decide?
  • What is a marriage?
  • How many genders are there?

These questions weren’t even on the radar screen when we seniors were kids; shucks, radar was even new when we were kids!.

The reason that these issues were not on the radar when we were kids but they are now is that the worldview of our institutions and the people who control them has largely changed and that has molded the worldview of our citizens to what it is today. In fact, these many of these institutions are trying to redefine the answers to every one of the basic questions of life I listed above that we all learned as kids.

How did our generation form its worldview? By largely being raised in two-parent homes in the 40’s and 50’s and going schools (both public and private) where our teachers read to us from the Bible and saluted the flag with us every morning. And on top of that, many of us had parents who took us to church or synagogue every Saturday or Sunday.

All of this started to change at an accelerating pace back in the 60’s when drugs, sex and music all took a very sharp turn in our culture to reshape our worldview. And while we see and feel it some, I don’t believe that we here in “The Bible Belt” of the USA realize the full extent of what has happened to our culture.

So what can we do about it?

  • Be careful not to let the culture rob the truth from us
  • Vote for candidates who stand for what we know to be true
  • Faithfully attend a Bible believing and teaching church……
  • And take your grandkids with you if they’re not going already
  • Teach your grandkids what you know to be true

These are The Most Important Things we can do. They are more important than ever in this post modern era and culture we live in here in the USA; it’s not the same country we grew up in……let’ s take it back!

Thanks for reading All About Seniors…..see you next week!

Bill Milby is a Director of Visiting Angels® of Central Georgia, a non-medical, living assistance service for seniors. If you have questions or comments about this column you can reach him at william.mercylink@gmail.com

Hands on Helpers ©

One of the fondest memories I have as a child is helping my grandfather, “Milby the Plumber”. Oh, what I would do today if I only had that proud sign of his that hung in his back yard. He was a self-employed master plumber way back in the days before PVC pipe. He took the greatest pride in his beautifully “Sweated” (soldered) copper joints. And before that, he even taught me how to cut threads on black iron and galvanized pipe. I learned so much just watching him and handing him his tools.  And although none of us is supposed to have favorites, I believe I became his favorite grandson, but please don’t tell anyone I said that!

I was laying awake in bed about 4:30 Monday wondering about two things: what should I write for the AAS column this morning and what should I do to keep my two grandsons occupied today until my wife returns to take up her regular “Nanny Duties”. All of a sudden it hit me how to combine these by involving my grandsons in a project my wife has on her “Honey-do” list; I’ll have them help me build a table.

We recently renovated a guest house kitchen and used butcher block for the counter tops; they turned out beautifully. Now we need a kitchen table. After my wife scoured through her large trove of magazines and we kicked around lots of ideas, we settled on me building a 30″ round table using butcher block for the table top to match the counter tops. Should be relatively simple, fun and certainly unique. 

So that’s what Luke and Josh, 8 and 4 years old respectively, are going to help me do today. Of course, they don’t even know it yet…..they’re still sound asleep in our bed (It’s still only 5:30). Yep, all three of us were there until I got up and cranked up the computer to put this idea on paper.

So, in just a little while, after I feed them a good ‘ole farm breakfast of grits, biscuits, and fresh eggs that they’ll gather from the hen house, they’re going to learn how to build a table. In the process they’ll learn what butcher block is, how to use a tape measure, scribe a circle with a compass, handle a jig saw, carpenter’s glue, an orbital sander and a power nailer. I wonder what grand pop Milby would have done with all those fancy power tools? We are so spoiled today with every tool imaginable just a few clicks away on our computers and delivered to our doorsteps in just a day or so; what a world we live in !!!

So, here’s a word for all you grand pops out there: Why not pry your grandsons, and granddaughters too, away from their iPhones and iPads and let them help you with a project in your shop. Preferably it should be one on your wife’s “Honey-do List”; that way you can kill two birds with one stone as the saying goes. But if you decide to take the challenge, remember to make it fun; after all they are kids. Hot chocolate and marshmallows, anyone?

Thanks for reading All About Seniors…..see you next week!

PS: Have a Very Merry, Christ-Centered Christmas!

Bill Milby is a Director of Visiting Angels® of Central Georgia, a non-medical, living assistance service for seniors. If you have questions or comments about this column you can reach him at william.mercylink@gmail.com 

Bethlehem in the Pitts, 2019 ©

Have you ever wondered what Bethlehem was like that special night a couple thousand years ago when our savior was born? It must have been incredible. On the one hand it was the most important event in all human history, with the birth of the savior of all mankind happening in Bethlehem as foretold by the prophets hundreds of years before. And on that special night, it was announced to some shepherds by an angel who was then joined by “A vast host of others –the armies of heaven–praising God and saying “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and peace on earth to those with whom God is pleased”.

On the other hand it was an incredibly humble event. Mary, a young Jewish girl, being basically at full term in her pregnancy, had to travel about 80 miles by foot, or perhaps on a donkey, with Joseph because a census had been ordered, and there was no exception for young girls about to deliver their first baby! When they arrived in Bethlehem there was no lodging available for them so they had to sleep in a manger. Can you imagine Prince William and Kate spending the night before her first baby delivery in a stable?! What a contrast from what happened to Mary and Joseph to what we would expect today for the birth of a Royal baby.

At any rate, it’s a story that deserves telling each year at this time, especially to our grandchildren, and if we can get a little help in telling the story, that would be a good thing.

And that’s exactly what the folks at Pleasant View Baptist Church in Pitts , GA decided a few years go when they started a live Nativity display at an old donkey barn owned by one of their members. It went over so well that they’ve outgrown the old barn and this year decided to build a new one to host the Nativity.

My neighbor’s wife has been teasing us the last month or so with Facebook posts re the barn’s progress. Last night, curiosity got the best of me so my wife and I went to see for ourselves where this Bethlehem re-enactment is going to be this Sunday, Dec. 15th at 5 PM. It’s on a perfect little triangular plot of ground across from the church building which has been set aside just for this purpose. In talking with Mike Holiday, one of the chief architects and builders of this project, I was told last night there would be live animals, music, and a cast of actors from the church to re-enact that special night.

Mike said they even looked into renting a camel for the occasion but it didn’t quite fit in this year’s budget. But he did say that hot dogs, and drinks did fit in the budget and that all were welcome to join them this coming Sunday at 5 PM.

We’ve invited all of our grandchildren that live nearby to come celebrate with us at Bethlehem in the Pitts. *Will you join us at:

Pleasant View Baptist Church

74 Spruce Lane,

Pitts, GA, 31072

PS Bring your lawn chairs!

*This event has already happened, but you can add it to your calendar for 2020

Bill Milby is a Director of Visiting Angels® of Central Georgia, a non-medical, living assistance service for seniors. If you have questions or comments about this column you can reach him at william.mercylink@gmail.com

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